by Mario C. Veo
Whether we like it or not we are the only ones that truly shape our Life… Harsh statement, right ! Yes, we can easily point a finger at parents / teachers / the environment and yes – to some extent – they all played a part…BUT only if we let them.
Remember the old saying: You can lead the horse to water… The opposite is equally true – no matter what you offer someone, it’s still up to them to use it – or discard it… It’s called ‘Free Will’, and it’s a bitch, ’cause it’d be so much easier if we could blame somebody for our misfortune, our struggles, our lack…
Let’s look at one of our most fundamental desires – here we are, struggling to find that ‘special one’, that rare mystical being we call ‘the Soul Mate’, and – if we’ve been so lucky as to achieve this – we now have to be on our best behavior, do our utmost to keep them happy, and for the first time we really realize the meaning that “All good relationships require work” [… but what if you haven’t yet found them…what if no matter how hard you’ve tried, life is still a bust… are you still looking around to find someone or something to blame… to take responsibility for it all… ?!? Ok. I can hear some of you screaming back at me… so give me an opportunity to make it all right…]
Yes, there are cases where you were not at fault, when something was done to you , something that was totally unfair – and perhaps even brutal … and so here you are – hurt / wounded / betrayed… but you are not ‘irretrievably damaged’, there are many great and skilled Healers and Counselors whose calling is to help you, to guide you back to that radiant self that is – truly – who you are… So now the choice is yours – do you wish these perpetrators to rule you / your Life… or are you going to reclaim your Power, your gifts, your Right to a wonderful and fulfilling life…
You see, the choice IS yours to make – or not … just remember that Karma will follow – from life to life to life – until we get it right Now lets look at those who have not been traumatized, those that have had an ok life, so far… those that would consider themselves ‘happy with their lot’… If that’s your truth, then good for you… but are you willing to do a small little exercise… just a little one… It’s called “Envy and Regret” and it’s a good eye opener.
Simply look at your life – and those around you: Do you have any regrets as to what you could / should / wanted to have in your life… or do you know someone who has something that you don’t, something that you really, really wish you had…
If you have any of these feelings then you’re not really ‘content’ with your lot… and, if you’re simply willing to put up with what you have, then you are not living at your fullest…and you do deserve more! You see ‘Envy and Regret’ should not be considered ‘bad’ or even undesirable feelings…rather they are messages that some part of you is dissatisfied with life – that it feels incomplete, and that it’s showing you clearly what it wants / needs / desires … of course, how we go about fulfilling this can often create an even bigger mess than we’re currently in .
Ok, now that we’ve realized that it IS up to us to do something about living life to the fullest, where do we start ? Easy, look at your physical environment… yes, your home / car / clothes – your Feng Shui – for they all have an Energy – which in turn carries Qualities – that shape your Life… and can easily support your changes – or block them mercilessly.
Next look at your relationships – for they are not only a reflection of your Life, but actively contribute to it – and figure out if they are gentle, loving, supportive people… or just vampires, enjoying your struggles, and doing all they can to keep themselves amused at your expense … And now you can begin making some small but important choices – the first steps on a new path of personal transformation… if you so wish… Remember – no one else can shape your life, but you…
Mario C. Veo is a teacher of Spiritual Science and a Healing Arts Practitioner. He teaches classes and individuals on Personal Transformation and the Expansion of Consciousness. Mario is available for personal guidance and consultations on Tuesdays and monthly on the last Sunday at the Shining Lotus™ Bookstore.
